Dear “My Prof Hates Me!”
Whenever I get a letter like this so early in the semester, I have to preface my advice with
“Your Prof doesn’t know you well enough to hate you.” It may be intimidating to meet with your Prof one-on-one. When you left high school a few months ago, you were quite comfortable as a senior. University may seem a bit overwhelming, by contrast. Professors are experts in their fields; they are researchers and writers. Their strength is mastering knowledge, but teaching is only a part of their role. They value your inquisitive search for information and perfection. Be proactive in getting to know your Profs a bit better. Invest some time and energy in preparing for class and presenting well-thought-out questions. When you need extra help, make an appointment. Even though office hours are posted, it can be more time efficient if you request a specific time with the purpose clearly stated. Your request could read, for instance, “Dear Professor X: The topic we were discussing on Tuesday, regarding [blank], was very enlightening. Could I meet with you during office hours to inquire about other authors on this subject?” If you do drop by during office hours and feel less-than-welcome, maintain a professional attitude. You could write, “Professor X, I would like to review a few points with you regarding [blank]; when would you be available for about 15 minutes?” You will discover that professors are real people who are interested in your success and may be valuable references in your future.
Elann
Email: dearelann@gmail.com for advice and help.