Finding your balance
The art of partying, like the universe, is defined by balance. It is an intoxicated state of equilibrium – a tightrope that you must sing and dance across, all the while avoiding falling into the abyss of the so-called “black out.”
With St. Patrick’s Day upon us, having a couple of drinks – at the very least – will be the common green-filled activity for a lot of us. With that, to put it in a single word, comes liberation. An ability to dance like no one is watching, when, in reality, everyone is. It’ll include deep conversations with strangers, personal accounts of travels from far-away and exotic lands, and emotional breakthroughs with your closest friends. But, for all this to be actualized, you need to be standing and coherent, clear-headed, and to put it bluntly, not an asshole. There are few a tip-and-tricks to keep your composure during the day-long fun that comes paired with St. Patrick’s Day, and, for your benefit, we share them below.
With St. Patrick’s Day upon us on March 17, it is important to be aware of these helpful tips to avoid dangers and consequences of drinking without moderation in mind.
Eat full meals. Never drink on an empty stomach. Why not start off the day with some pancakes? St. Patrick’s Day and morning pancakes certainly, with a long-standing history, go hand-in-hand. Eat a good breakfast, lunch, and dinner for that matter. Fat and proteins work best to fill the tank. Breads and carbohydrates act as sponges, absorbing all the evils of the drink, allowing for clear-headed fun.
Stay hydrated. Fun fact: alcohol dehydrates you, while water hydrates. Remember kids, the art of St. Patrick’s Day is all about balance. With that, make water your best friend, and visit her constantly. Water is the life force. Always remember that.
Be responsible for every member of your crew. And your crew is responsible for you. The buddy system is frivolous when you enter a house flooded by a sea of people. Be aware of your friends; watch over them like an older sibling would. You’re partying together, you’re creating memories together, so it should be obvious that you protect each other.
Be responsible for every member of the party. We all share one thing: our humanity. Don’t reserve your helpful hand to your tribe only. The greatest tribe is humankind. And so, help one another towards the ultimate goal: a refreshing and enlightening party. That is to say, a brief realization of utopia, where everyone has fun, and everyone loves one another.
Have knowledge of the self. Know alcohol’s effects on you. This means not having 10 green jello shots before flying away from the nest in caprice. This will help you avoid getting sick five minutes before the taxi arrives. On another note, know yourself. Know when you’re uncomfortable, and try to find comfort in that situation. You are the creator of your mental state. Be mindful of your thoughts and remember that drinking out with friends is about play and insights. If it’s a toxic place, or if you’re feeling the toxics ascending, get out of there. In short, be self-aware: check if you’re losing balance on your tightrope. Only you can be aware of the balance of your own universe.
Be confident. Assert yourself. Go say “Hi” to that pretty girl that seems interesting. Hand out compliments – they’re free. Dance passionately. You are the master of your own destiny. Take control and you will find peace in the chaos.
Be kind. This is the most important thing to remember. Enjoying a party with friends is about love. Love for the music, love for the people, love for yourself. Talk to everyone in a loving way, they will teach you. Be open-minded.