With the global spread of COVID-19, many countries are recommending or forcing social distancing. But what does this mean for our sex lives?
COVID-19 can be transmitted through saliva or mucus, which can be exchanged in close contact or through kissing. According to New York City Health, there is no evidence that COVID-19 is transmitted through semen or vaginal fluid, but there is evidence that the virus can be found in feces. This means that transmission is possible during rimming (mouth on anus).
Social distancing indicates that engaging in sexual activity with someone you live with is okay, as there is no increased risk. However, social distancing means that you should be six feet apart from anyone outside your household. Given that it is difficult to engage in physical sexual activity from six feet apart, the recommendation would be not to have sex.
This does not however mean that no sexual interactions can happen while social distancing. There are many ways to enjoy a sexual life without being in the same room as someone else. NYC Health reminds us that “you are your safest sex partner.” COVID-19 does not spread through masturbation.
An increase in masturbation may be the reason sexy toy brand Womaniser noted that their sex toy sales have risen in recent weeks. Their sales have increased 50 per cent worldwide and by 135 per cent in Canada. This increase could also be because people are buying sex toys you can use with your partner from afar. Apps such as We-Connect (works with some we-vibe toys) allow users to control vibrators from anywhere in the world. Additionally, you can still enjoy sexting, phone sex, and video sex with a partner while social distancing.
A version of this article appeared in print in The Ontarion issue 188.4 on April 9, 2020.
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