Trust me – it is so much better
Hello, first years, and welcome to the University of Guelph! As our newest members of the university community, I’m sure you’ve spent the last two weeks overwhelmed with the influx of people, activities, and change in your life. As crazy as it seems, though, there are so many wonderful benefits of attending university that high school just does not have to offer. The purpose of this article is to give you a bit of reassurance and to help you understand why, truly, you will have a better, more fulfilling time here than you could ever experience in high school.
The people – As someone who came from a less-than-diverse school (and city, really), I was delighted at not only the variety of people here at U of G, but at how well those of all sorts got along. Gone were the cliques and (most of) the drama. You’ll always have differing fashions and stereotypes, but the difference is that they all coexist peacefully. I’ve met people from countless countries, befriended those in virtually every major, and participated in activities as varying as the people running them.
The conversation – It’s hard to realize exactly how immature the high school lifestyle is until you leave it. The interactions I’ve had at university are perhaps the most refreshing difference from high school. Faded are the proud proclamations of how much beer was funneled, replaced by political (but respectful) debates. I can overhear conversations while walking by the library that focus on the environment, global crises, or art forms, without being bombarded by constant rumours of hookups. Of course, there will still be a fair amount of gossip and drama, but it won’t permeate every discussion of your life. And that, friends, is a huge relief for those of us who have other things to talk about.
The classes – Although you may not notice it right away in first year, university tends to be a much more academically satisfying journey for students than high school. You’ll especially notice this in your upper years, but you at least have some control over what you’re taking. You’ll likely find yourself actually interested in the content, which in turn makes you more willing to do the work. You’ll be able to apply the information you learn (gasp!) and use it to reach your aspired career. It’s also important to be aware that your interests will likely change – a majority of students end up switching their major after first year. Better to spend your time and money on something you love, right?
The independence – Glorious freedom. You can eat what you want, when you want; you can create your own class schedule and you can take a night off from homework without a nagging parent at your bedroom door. The independence of university is both a burden and a blessing, as the ability to go out when you so desire competes with the responsibility of your future solely on your shoulders. In the end, it all comes down to balance, which leads us to….
The reality – University is completely unlike any high school. There is no roll call taken in class. Professors honestly don’t care if you come to all of the classes – or any class, for that matter. Residence staff members don’t care if you keep your room tidy and the Dean doesn’t care if you study for your exams. If you hand something in late, you can forget about full mark leniency. The university has your money, you have its opportunity for education – it’s up to you what you make of it.
Guelph – You’re not just going to any university – you’re going to Guelph. We have resources for every challenge you may face, friendly people you’ll want to make your lifelong friends, and a breathtaking campus. We have hardworking athletes, renowned faculty, and puppies in training (please ask first!). The city itself boasts a strong and caring community, historical significance, and a great hockey team! High school sported some dark days for me, and coming to Guelph has changed my life in ways I could never have imagined. It thrills me to know that it’s your turn next. Good luck, and welcome!